Friday, November 28, 2008

Do Older Women Take Younger Men Seriously?

Dear Zane,

I have sent you a message before and I thank you for your advice. Now I have another question. I can honestly say that at least 90% of my past relationships have been with older women. I am 18 and they have gotten as old as 35. I've noticed that there is a large amount of women that like to be with younger men. This isn't exactly a problem; however I have noticed that the older women only want to "have fun". Nothing serious. No long term relationships. I was just wondering if you think this is for all women. Do you think there is a possibility that there are women out there who are willing to have a serious relationship with younger men?
Young Lover

Dear Young Lover,

There are women who do get into serious relationships with younger men. Many of them lose their careers, families and even their freedom because of it. Depending on the ages of the women, that will have a lot to do with the situation. A 35-year-old woman dating an 18-year-old is more than likely not going to take him around her friends and family. Why? Because she knows her ass is wrong. To me, there is a huge difference between a 28-year-old woman dating an 18-year-old man and a 38-year-old woman dating a 28-year-old man. For one thing a man has had a chance to truly mature. The women you are dealing with can be judged based on their actions. You know the deal and you should not expect a different result if you keep doing the same things.


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