Sunday, March 1, 2009

Friendly Fuck Friends

Dear Zane,

For about three or four years, I had this crush on a guy. One day, before Winter Break, he invited me over to his house, where all of my dreams came true. Well, sort of. I sucked his dick but all he did was finger me. About a year or two later, we have continued our sexcapades. I finally got some of his dick. The problem is that now I’ve started dating a guy who seemingly knows him. The sex is off the walls with the new guy. We don’t have to fuck in a bathroom but I still have to sneak in. I don’t know what to do about my longing crush. I want to be with him, but I don’t want to hurt my man.

Sincerely,
Friendly Fuck Friends

Dear Friendly Fuck Friends,

Okay, I am still trying to get past “having to fuck in a bathroom” and “having to sneak in.” Obviously you are young and that is not a crime, but it can sometimes be a hindrance in life’s journey. While you do not necessarily have to stop dating either one of them, if it is bothering you that much than you should let one of them go. Men often date more than one woman, even when they are supposed to be committed. Maybe I am missing something but it does not sound like you have a commitment with either man. Them knowing each other can be tricky, but it is not unheard of. Since you are in school, that should be your focus and not settling down. You will have plenty of time for that later on. Sucking a guy’s dick and then not getting actual sex for nearly two years means that he does not view you in the light that you may think. Fucking you in a bathroom instead of making other accommodations to speaks volumes. Just relax and live free and enjoy what lies ahead of you but make sure you practice safe sex.

Blessings,
Zane

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Zane i love all your books. You are my favorite. You books, and TV show turn my life around. im more freaker than i was in 2 years ago. I have a open mine about the thing i do in the bedroom. My boyfriend (boytoy i call him) loves when i act out the roles in your books and TV shows. i would love to meet you in person. I live in Chicago IL. around the downtown area. can you please keep in touch with me so i can know when you are going to be in the Chicago downtown area at a book store.

Your #1 Fan,
KitaBoo

Anonymous said...

Dear Zane,

It's me again KitaBoo. You can email me at (shekita_h@yahoo.com)

Anonymous said...

Hi Zane
I am a 30 year old female and I have never been married and do not have any kids. I am trying to figure out a way to get in touch with myself sexually and feel sexy again. I can count the times on both hands how many orgasms I have had in my entire life since I lost my virginity at 16. This maybe why I don't like sex or want it. I have a boyfriend of whom I have been with for almost 2 years. I love him very deeply, we only have one problem, that is my lack of sexual activity and me making him feel desired. I have never been one for the warm mushy stuff. I remember when we first met, things were always hot and steamy but that wore off. I want that back so bad, but I am truely having difficulties. We also disagree with the fact that I don't like to look sexy and I just want to stick to the same old me. I am a very pretty girl, but I don't see the point in all the makeup and sexy clothes. I really wanted to keep my man and I know if I don't do something soon, I could possibly loose him.

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